Forgiving
does not mean you have to agree to something you don't believe in; it just
means you're willing to let go the old and move forward to a new.
If you and
someone are on a different page at this time, allow each other the free will to
choose and the lessons that follow. Let the other learn from their choices and
evolve at their own pace. Don't try to control it—it is not up to you to decide
the pace at which the other person evolves. What is up to you, however, are your
deliberate choices to better your own being.
Bear in
mind that when you hold a grudge, you are in essence holding on to all the
negative feelings that come with it. These toxic feelings are yours—not someone
else's; they belong to you because you are the one holding on to the grudge. To
achieve true wellness, you must first let go of this toxicity by letting go of
the grudge. Forgive.
And no,
you do not have to be a part of something you don't agree with in order to
forgive. You can move on, turn a different page, find something that
serves you better, while also having forgiveness in your heart. So forgive
and forget-the-grudge,
however, always remember the lesson!
We do not
attract what we want; we attract what we are. Consequently, the universe offers
us experiences that match our giving, supportive nature or lack of it. The
way you pay attention to the world can make a huge difference in the way you
experience it. So
if you really want to see change for the better, you must first be the change you are
seeking.
Be aware
of where you focus most of your attention. Remember: You are the product of your thoughts; loving thoughts make you kind, miserable thoughts make
you a downer, joyful thoughts make you spread more light. So how do you spend
most of your thoughts?
This
coming 2013, do yourself a favour—give the gift of Forgiveness. Start by forgiving yourself... And
if there's someone you're contemplating on forgiving, this is the time to do
so. You deserve to nourish your spirit with this empowering choice. Do not
settle for anything less!
Here's
wishing you more ABUNDANCE in love, health and prosperity for the new year! :)
xo